5/18/15 – Cheating Whore 

Ok, it’s not what you want your son to call his mom even if it’s true. Especially not in front of the person who is taking care of him who appears to be wanting to quit. What can you do? 

I show up at Hunters house and he is already in a massive tirade. Hunter is crying because he had been “calling me names. They may be ok in your house but not mine.” I tell her it’s not acceptable in my house either, but it’s Debbie who answered the door. Hunter is making guacamole. Then she’s just cleaning. She is barely keeping it together, and I’m guessing because Debbie is there. Debbie is watching tv with my daughter.

Son is throwing things to the ground (chairs, cat scratches), then puts a hole in the wall. Actually two, but the first is really just a dent in the drywall. Debbie eventually leaves, and I go to the garage to gets some tools I need to get the razor scooter together for Memorial Day. I open my tool box, and most are missing. I come out and ask where she took my tools to. I need them and I think it’s crap that she took my tools. 

She starts crying and telling she has a lot going on right now and doesn’t need this and didn’t do anything. She follows me out and I show her the empty tool box. She’s got them hidden in the back room. She grabs the box and dumps everything out to get me the hex key set. The Craftsman set I said was missing. She starts yelling that I can leave and I’m not allowed to yell at her in her house. I tell her that just because she bought all the stuff in the house for $1,000 didn’t give her the right to steal my tools. 

The she tells me that I’m in her house and her son can’t call her those names. I tell her he can’t use that language in my house either, but maybe she shouldn’t have used it when we were fighting. That’s when I go into the whole restitution issue, and leave telling her that God can’t bless those who turn their back on him. 

It’s like Hunter goes out of her way to make things miserable for everyone. Why doesn’t he ever do this with me? At one point I tell her the same. She just ignores it and goes on about son calling her a cheating whore. Technically it’s accurate but not appropriate. That’s not my problem since I don’t allow him to use that language with me. 

On the way home I text Debbie to see if she will talk with me, but no response. I guess women stick together when one is called a cheating whore. 

I text Hunter about the medical bills. She tells me to email her the questions, I text her back that I didn’t have any questions but we need to discuss it. No response from her either. I guess it’s just the day women will ignore my texts. I guess that should work for me. I’m not the cheating whore.

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