Strange going to Saddleback Thanksgiving dinner. The one girl who was checking me out in May was checking me out again yesterday. She is beautiful, and has a boyfriend. However, she kept staring at me all day. As soon as I showed up she stared at me for ten minutes. It was a little uncomfortable for me knowing she had a boyfriend. It will be interesting to see how long it lasts.
I finally got the invite for the wine club again. I needed to finagle the invite. I’m not sure what is going on, but it feels like I’m losing most of them. They are all 3040 and I’m not. I still have no idea if Joy got back together with her married boyfriend, but I’m not going to ask. I don’t want people to know I know. The only down size would be if Joy told anyone, but I doubt it.
The Assistant Pastor of 3040 emailed me back about helping him out with some suggestions. I haven’t heard back yet, but it is Thanksgiving Holiday. I’m wondering if I will hear back from him next week. It would be nice to help revamp the group. Get rid of the hypocrites and the adultery and turn it back into a ministry of God. We shall see.
The extra money I got from the escrow refund went to property taxes and a new tv, plus some storage for the garage. I really do need it. At least I can get some value out of the refund and the government unemployment. At least it will get me through Christmas without a lot of excess costs.
The hard part was listening to my son tell me he was choked and hit several times by his mom. There were scratches and a black eye. At some point in time CPS will hand over the kids to me and then all hell will break lose for my ex. That is an expensive proposition for her. Even at unemployment that’s 17% of a big salary going to me. I would expect her to sue and then lose and then kill herself. She is a very vindictive person.